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20251019 Sunday Ordinary 29 C

Jesus told his disciples a parable about the necessity for them to pray always without becoming weary.  He then tells the parable of widow who keeps coming to a judge seeking a just decision against her adversary. 

The Jesuit, Fr. Dennis Hamm, emeritus professor of the New Testament at Creighton University in Omaha, wrote: “That widow in Jesus’ parable who kept badgering the judge to vindicate her cause – think of what she was up against.  As a widow in the Ancient Near East she is without resources.  Since the court of law (the city gates?) was entirely a male realm, we are to picture her as a lone woman amidst a noisy crowd of men.  An oft-quoted description of Near Eastern litigation describes a raucous crowd of clients competing for the attention of a judge, who is surrounded by an array of personal clerks.  Some clients gain access to the judge by supplying “fees” (bribes) to a particular clerk.  The rest simply clamor.  The fact that the woman is alone suggests that there is no male available in her extended family to plead her case.  She is very much alone in an intimidating situation.” 

What is more, the judge is described as one who neither fears God nor is capable of shame before men.  Presumably, he is moved only by bribery, and this woman is either unwilling or unable to use that means.  The only strategy available to her is persistence – which finally gets through to the irreverent and shameless judge.  He knows the woman is not going to give up; so, he gives in.” 

John Pilch wrote: “cultural insights urge more precise translations of this story to show why its popular title, “The Persistent Widow,” is inappropriate.  The word for “widow” in Hebrew means “silent one” or “one unable to speak.” In the patriarchal Mediterranean world males alone play a public role.  Women do not speak on their own behalf. 

A widow who has lost her husband and spokesperson to death is in an even worse condition if the eldest son is not married.  Because widows were not included in Hebrew laws on inheritance, they became common symbols of the exploited and oppressed. Prophets like Isaiah and Malachi criticized the harsh treatment they received, and throughout the Bible widows are viewed as being under the special protection of God. What finally moves the judge is not her persistence but rather that, literally translated, “she will end up giving me a black eye”.  The Greek word in that verse is borrowed from boxing. 

The Greek language also used the word figuratively to mean “blacken one’s face,” which means to publicly shame a person. The translation “wear me down” is incorrect and misses the entire point: “shame.”  By publicly badgering the judge every day, the woman repeatedly shames this shameless person. Who knows but, at some point, that she might not even poke him in the eye, literally? 

After all, in a culture where law-courts were not about justice but shaming others no matter what the cost, this judge would be damaged by the gossip report that a woman has shamed him.  He’d never live that down and couldn’t continue as judge.” 

John Pilch helps us to see the parable in the Gospel from a totally different perspective.  He continued: “The parable makes convincing sense in the Mediterranean world but may be less convincing in the modern world.”  Even though the parable may not have the same impact on us today, we are still conscious of shaming. 

How often do we perform an act or refrain from doing something, so we are not ashamed in front of others?  Peer pressure is tremendous and often makes us act based on what others might think of us.  This is especially true for young people in high school or middle school.  Tragically, some of our young people have committed suicide because of being shamed and bullied by others who are like the judge in today’s parable; they don’t care what anyone thinks of them if they are in charge. 

Shaming is as valid today as it was in ancient times.  Social media influences us more than we are willing to admit.  Realizing that our actions may be posted or ridiculed on Facebook makes us do what we would normally refrain from doing.  This applies to our personal lives as well as our work lives.  But it doesn’t have to be this way. 

In the second reading, Paul writes to Timothy: “I charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who will judge the living and the dead, ….. proclaim the word; be persistent whether it is convenient or inconvenient; convince, reprimand, encourage through all patience and teaching”. 

The parable tells us “For a long time, the judge was unwilling, but eventually he thought, ‘While it is true that I neither fear God nor respect any human being, because this widow keeps bothering me, I shall deliver a just decision for her lest she finally come and strike me.’”  Now we can begin to understand why praying without ceasing has results.  Jesus said “Pay attention to what the dishonest judge says.  Will not God then secure the rights of his chosen ones who call out to him day and night?  Will he be slow to answer them?  I tell you; he will see to it that justice is done for them speedily.” 

Our problem is that we want justice in this world, but our battle is not earthly, it is spiritual.  Our battle is against evil, and our reward is eternal life in heaven with God. 

In today’s Gospel, Jesus asks the question: “But when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?”  Think about that question for a moment. 

When Jesus comes, will he find anyone who believes in him?  When we look at the world today, we see ourselves and a few other faithful servants who believe in Jesus, and it ends there. 

Will we let peer, and social media pressure shame us into doing what we don’t want to do?  Let’s pray that we remain faithful in our faith until Jesus comes for us. 

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Thayer Wedding – Holy Cross

Today we celebrate a very special moment in the lives of David and Zelma.  Coming before God and the Church asking to be married as a sign of their faith in God and each other. 

In the first reading from Proverbs, we hear: “When one finds a worthy wife, her value is far beyond pearls.  Her husband, entrusting his heart to her, has an unfailing prize.”  I tell you that applies to both of them.  Finding each other and entrusting their hearts to each other is an unfailing love.  This theme continues. 

In the second reading, Paul is writing to the people in Corinth admonishing them to strive for the greatest spiritual gifts.  Then Paul talks about the greatest gift, love.  He said, “If I give away everything I own, and if I hand m body over so that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing. 

Paul then goes on to describe love: “Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth.  It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.  Love never fails.” 

In today’s Gospel, we hear that love for God and love for others is the greatest of all the commandments.  David and Zelma are showing their love for God as they come to the church to be married.  Their love for each other is evident by their family who are here to help them celebrate this special moment in their lives. 

As they walk the journey of life with each other and with the church, may they share their love for God with everyone they meet. 

We ask God to bless them and keep them in his care, safe in his loving arms and fill them with the Holy Spirit so others will see the love they have for God and each other. 

May your journey be filled with happiness and times of joy.  May you rely on God for strength in difficult times.  Always lead your family with God as the center of you lives.  Love God and each other with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and share God’s love those whom God sends into your lives. 

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Lackey Wedding – Holy Cross

Today we celebrate a very special moment in the lives of Rick and Anna.  Coming before God and the Church asking for their marriage to be blessed as a sign of their faith in God. 

In today’s Gospel, we hear that love for God and love for others is the greatest of all the commandments.  Rick and Anna are showing their love for God as they come to the church to have their marriage blessed by the church.  Their love for each other is evident by their family who are here to help them celebrate this special moment in their lives. 

As they walk the journey of life with each other and with the church, may they share their love for God with everyone they meet. 

We ask God to bless them and keep them in his care, safe in his loving arms and fill them with the Holy Spirit so others will see the love they have for God and each other. 

May your journey be filled with happiness and times of joy.  May you rely on God for strength in difficult times.  Always lead your family with God as the center of you lives love God and each other with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. 

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20251012SundayOrdinary28C

Today the disease we fear the most is probably cancer.  In ancient times, the dreaded disease was leprosy.  If someone developed a spot on their skin, they were required to go show it to the priest and if the priest determined it was leprosy, it was in essence a death sentence. 

The person was required to remove themselves from contact with all people, including their families and friends.  For most, it meant a life of begging for food at the gate to the city or village and shouting “Unclean, Unclean” to anyone who came close to them.  For a Jew, this meant they could no longer go to the temple so there was no way to offer sacrifice and receive redemption. 

In today’s Gospel, ten lepers stood at a distance and shouted “Jesus, Master! Have pity on us!”  As we will soon learn the ten lepers consist of Jews and at least one Samaritan.  In their life of misery, their hatred for one another became insignificant in the scheme of living an extremely difficult life so they banded together begging for food and clothing. 

Jesus has pity on them.  He tells them to go show themselves to the priest and as they were going, they were cleansed of their leprosy.  Even the Samaritan would have gone to show himself to the priest because they were taught that salvation is from the God of the Jews.  As they were going, one of them realized that they were healed and returned to Jesus giving thanks for their healing. 

We know that all ten were cleansed because Jesus said “Ten were cleansed, were they not?  Where are the other nine?”  But only one returned to give thanks, and that one was a foreigner, a Samaritan. 

That means that the other nine were probably Jews and had the most to gain from their healing.  They could now associate with others and go into the temple to worship and offer sacrifice for their sins.  We don’t know if they gave the required sacrifice of thanksgiving for their healing after they showed themselves to the priest, but only the Samaritan returned to Jesus praising and giving thanks to God for healing. 

We are truly blessed.  We live in a nation with more freedoms and a better living standard than any in the world.  Despite the turmoil and polarization in our political system, we are the richest in the world in terms of freedom and wealth.  The poor in the United States have so much more than the poor in the rest of the world, and middle-class Americans live in a standard that only the wealthiest have in many nations of the world. 

How often do we give thanks for these blessings?  Are we like the other nine lepers?  Do we complain about the issues and the hardships of life instead of giving thanks for the blessings we have received? 

Today’s Psalm reads: “All the ends of the earth have seen the salvation by our God.  Sing joyfully to the LORD, all you lands: break into song; sing praise.” 

Indeed, the rest of the world envies the freedom and wealth that we have received from our God.  That is why so many millions want to come to the United States even if they feel the only way into the country is illegal.  We must give thanks for the blessings we have received from God! 

Our culture teaches us that the only way to get ahead is to work, work, work.  The stress of trying to be the best at any cost wears us down until we are unhappy with life and complain about everything.  We become difficult to live with and for others to be around. 

Even with all the turmoil and polarization within our nation, we have so much to thank God for all the blessings we have received from him.  Let us always remember to give thanks for these blessings we have received from his bounty. 

The verse from the Alleluia today reminds us “In all circumstances, give thanks, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.”  God wants us to have these blessings and wants us to give him thanks for them. 

God gave us the gift of his Son, who gave his life on the cross that we might have forgiveness of our sins.  Christ rose from the tomb to defeat death and give us eternal life.  It is imperative that we give thanks to God for his many blessings, especially his Son, our Lord Jesus Christ who gives us eternal life. 

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