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About Deacon Joe Shriver

Deacon Joe is a Roman Catholic Deacon who served at Holy Cross Parish, Lake Stevens, WA in the Archdiocese of Seattle. Deacon Joe was ordained in 2007 at Saint James Cathedral in Seattle, WA. In the spring of 2018, we moved to Pennsylvania to be closer to family. Deacon Joe is currently serving at Saint Joseph Parish in York, PA.

20251221AdventSunday4A

In the first reading, the prophet Isaiah speaks to King Ahaz.  Isaiah tells the king that God will give a sign that a child will be born and he will be named Emmanuel.  The Anchorage Bible Dictionary tell us that this is a symbolic name meaning “with us [is] God,” found in Isaiah and cited in today’s Alleluia from Matt 1:23. 

Today’s Gospel tells us that Joseph did what the Angel of the Lord told him in a dream and took Mary into his home to be his wife.  All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmanuel, which means “God is with us.” 

Fr Ron Rolheiser asks: “Who exactly is this Joseph?  He is that quiet figure prominently named in the Christmas story as the husband of Mary and the stepfather of Jesus, and then basically is never mentioned again. 

But what do we really know about him? 

Joseph of the Christmas story writes his own history: he is presented to us as an “upright” man, a designation that scholars say implies that he has conformed himself to the Law of God, the supreme Jewish standard of holiness.  In every way he is blameless, a paradigm of goodness, which he demonstrates in the Christmas story by refusing to expose Mary to shame, even as he decides to divorce her quietly. 

Fr Rolheiser helps us understand the customs of that time: “The background, in so far as we can reconstruct it, to the relationship between Joseph and Mary would have been this: the marriage custom at the time was that a young woman, essentially at the age of puberty, would be given to a man, usually several years her senior, in an arranged marriage by her parents.  They would be betrothed, technically married, but would not yet live together or begin sexual relations for several more years.  The Jewish law was especially strict as to the couple remaining celibate while in the betrothal period.  During this time, the young woman would continue to live with her parents and the young man would go about setting up a house and an occupation so as to be able to support his wife once they began to live together. 

Joseph and Mary were at this stage of their relationship, legally married but not yet living together, when Mary became pregnant.  Joseph, knowing that the child was not his, had a dilemma: if he wasn’t the father, who was?  In order to save his own reputation, he could have demanded a public inquiry and, indeed, had Mary been accused of adultery, it might have meant her death.  However, he decided to “divorce her quietly,” that is, to avoid a public inquiry which would leave her in an awkward and vulnerable situation. 

Then, after receiving revelation in a dream, he agrees to take her home as his wife and to name the child as his own.  Partly we understand the significance of that: he spares Mary embarrassment, he names the child as his, and he provides an accepted physical, social, and religious place for the child to be born and raised.  But he does something else that is not so evident: he shows how a person can be a pious believer, deeply faithful to everything within his religious tradition, and yet at the same time be open to a mystery beyond both his human and religious understanding. 

Raymond Brown puts it like this: the hero of Matthew’s infancy story is Joseph, a very sensitive Jewish observer of the Law. … In Joseph, the evangelist was portraying what he thought a Jew [a true pious believer] should be and probably what he himself was. 

In essence what Joseph teaches us is how to live in loving fidelity to all that we cling to humanly and religiously, even as we are open to a mystery of God that takes us beyond all the categories of our religious practice and imagination.” 

Fr Rolheiser said about Joseph: “But he does something else that is not so evident: he shows how a person can be a pious believer, deeply faithful to everything within his religious tradition, and yet at the same time be open to a mystery beyond both his human and religious understanding.”  We find a new approach to Emmanual from a priest in the UK. 

Fr Tom Kleinschmidt, an Oblate of Mary the Virgin (OMV) and the parish priest of St. Boniface’s Southampton, wrote about today’s readings: “When we go through challenges, we might often find ourselves asking God: “Please give me a sign that I will get through this.  Give me a sign that all will be well.  Give me a sign that you have not forgotten me.”  In these last days of Advent God is reminding us of the sign he gave to Ahaz, which was fulfilled in Mary.  He is “Emmanuel, God with us”.  When the angels appeared to the shepherds of Bethlehem, he told them: “This will be a sign to you: you will find a baby wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger”. 

Advent and Christmas remind us once again that God is truly with us in the nitty gritty routine of daily life.  …. Though remaining true God, he has become true man and immersed himself in our human experience.  He comes close enough to touch our wounds, close enough to walk our streets, close enough to cry our tears.  In the Eucharist the same Jesus, who once lay in a manger, is now humbly hidden in the Host.  St. John Vianney once said that if we truly understood the Eucharist, we would die of joy.  God is with us so completely that He becomes our food, our Bread of Life. 

God’s desire to remain with us did not stop at Bethlehem.  It reached its summit in the Eucharist.  At every Mass, that same Child of Bethlehem, now risen and glorified, comes again in the hidden form of bread and wine.  The Eucharist is the sign God is now giving to show that He is truly with us – Emmanuel made present.  St Teresa of Calcutta used to often say: “When you look at the crucifix, you understand how much Jesus loved you then; when you look at the tabernacle, you understand how much He loves you now.”  If the angels, who appeared to the shepherds of Bethlehem, were to appear to us, they would say: “This will be a sign for you.  You will find Jesus in the Holy Eucharist, hidden under the appearances of bread and wine.” 

In a noisy world that often forgets God, He remains silently with us, waiting in every tabernacle, whispering in the depths of our hearts: “Do not be afraid.  I am with you.”  When we receive Jesus at Holy Communion, God-with-us becomes God-within-us.  Every moment we spend before the Blessed Sacrament is a moment spent in the heart of Emmanuel.  He fills us with Himself so that we can carry His presence into the world. 

In a few minutes, we will receive the Holy Eucharist; Emmanuel, God-within-us.  Like Joseph ,we receive Jesus, only in bread and wine transformed.  The Eucharist gives God’s love to us to share with everyone we meet. 

St Joseph, pray for us. 

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20251115SundayOrdinary33C

“Before all this happens, however, they will seize and persecute you, they will hand you over to the synagogues and to prisons, and they will have you led before kings and governors because of my name.  It will lead to your giving testimony.” 

What an outlook for the future!!  “They will seize and persecute you; they will hand you over to the synagogues and to prisons, and they will have you led before kings and governors because of my name.” 

WHY???

Because of my name!! 

In today’s Gospel, Jesus has some words that seem extremely harsh.  However, looking at history, his words are rather mild.  Christians have been persecuted and martyred for their belief in Jesus from today’s Gospel forward. 

When the disciples asked Jesus when this would happen, he replied: “See that you not be deceived, for many will come in my name, saying, ‘I am he,’ and ‘The time has come.’ Do not follow them!”  So how do we know who to follow?” 

Our church provides the answer for us.  We come to mass and bring our children to mass so we will learn the truth and know who to follow.  Our young people attend Sparks and Ignite where they too learn about Jesus and his love for each of us.  We send our children to Catholic school, so they learn the truth about who to follow, to learn from our Church’s catechism how to discern the truth.  We have our children attend Religious Education classes, so they learn who to follow.  We, as parents, teach our children what is right and what is wrong.  We teach them how to follow our Lord, Jesus Christ despite who the world around us follows. 

Our young adults gather to study and fellowship with each other so they can gain a greater knowledge of God’s plan for them and how to live their lives sharing God’ love with one another and everyone they meet. 

We adults have many opportunities in our parish to gather with others, to study together and learn more about Jesus and his teaching. 

We are fortunate here in the United States that we don’t fear for our lives because we are Christians.  We see persecution all around us.  There have been times in our country when Catholics were persecuted and even martyred for their faith.  Even today, some states single out Catholics because of our faith in the family unit as defined by God and our Church. 

In many parts of the world, Christians are persecuted and martyred because of their faith in Jesus.  This is happening in Gaza, in Nigeria, in the Soviet Union, China, and in many other countries.  Jesus predicted this in today’s Gospel.  Jesus also predicted: “There will be powerful earthquakes, famines, and plagues from place to place; and awesome sights and mighty signs will come from the sky.”  Devastating typhoons, hurricanes, and earthquakes are happening all over the world.  The flooding from three feet of rain in twenty-four hours is something that we can only try to imagine.  To experience it is frightening beyond our comprehension and the devastation left behind these storms is impossible to capture in our minds. 

Hurricane Melissia unleashed high winds and rain on Jamica, Haiti, and some of the other islands in the Caribbean.  This hit close to home for us here at St Joseph Church.  The pictures from the area around the school we support in the Diocese of Mandeville Jamica seem unreal. 

Jesus said that this would happen but that we should not worry about what is happening in the world around us.  Why?  Because there is hope!  It’s so easy for us, in our comforts of this life, to forget that our life is not about here and now.  It is about the Kingdom of God and eternal life with Christ.  We live this life, serving God and helping others, to be able to enjoy eternal life with Christ. 

We pass our faith to our children and grandchildren to enable them to have the same hope in Christ when it seems as though the world is falling apart around us.  We pray for others, especially those who make unkind remarks about us, so we follow Jesus’ example of praying for our enemies despite their hatefulness toward us. 

Jesus also said that we should not worry about what to say when this happens.  The Holy Spirit will give us the words to witness for him.  Our reaction is to retaliate to the one who is causing our suffering.  The Holy Spirit will help us to reply with love and kindness. 

John Kavenaugh, a Jesuit wrote: “Yet Christ, seeming to anticipate our wonder, offered this advice: “Do not be perturbed. … These things are bound to happen.”  Bound to happen.  Life is bound to be this way.  He is not speaking about the end of all times, but the condition of every time.” 

He continued: “I believe there is at least one interpretation of apocalyptic literature (one far more solid than the endless announcements of the end of the world, based on occult reading of scripture) that takes such passages as revelations not so much of what is to come, but of what is now the case.”

Each day is the last.  Each time is the end time.  Each human being faces the end of the world in the span of a life, whether it reach eight minutes or eighty years.  The world, its opportunities and losses, passes away for us each night.  Every sunset announces a closing of a day that will never come again.  Each human death, …., is the curtain on an unrepeatable drama, which, without God, amounts to a tragedy.  Every generation, in some way, is the last, the termination.  And each generation, like each death and every day, witnesses the signs of the end times.” 

The verse from the Alleluia today is from the Gospel of Luke.  It tells us to “Stand erect and raise your heads because your redemption is at hand.” 

So, let us stand erect and raise our heads, regardless of what the world has to say.  Don’t worry about what is bound to happen in the world.  We know that Jesus is our hope, our life!  He will raise us to eternal life with him. 

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20251019 Sunday Ordinary 29 C

Jesus told his disciples a parable about the necessity for them to pray always without becoming weary.  He then tells the parable of widow who keeps coming to a judge seeking a just decision against her adversary. 

The Jesuit, Fr. Dennis Hamm, emeritus professor of the New Testament at Creighton University in Omaha, wrote: “That widow in Jesus’ parable who kept badgering the judge to vindicate her cause – think of what she was up against.  As a widow in the Ancient Near East she is without resources.  Since the court of law (the city gates?) was entirely a male realm, we are to picture her as a lone woman amidst a noisy crowd of men.  An oft-quoted description of Near Eastern litigation describes a raucous crowd of clients competing for the attention of a judge, who is surrounded by an array of personal clerks.  Some clients gain access to the judge by supplying “fees” (bribes) to a particular clerk.  The rest simply clamor.  The fact that the woman is alone suggests that there is no male available in her extended family to plead her case.  She is very much alone in an intimidating situation.” 

What is more, the judge is described as one who neither fears God nor is capable of shame before men.  Presumably, he is moved only by bribery, and this woman is either unwilling or unable to use that means.  The only strategy available to her is persistence – which finally gets through to the irreverent and shameless judge.  He knows the woman is not going to give up; so, he gives in.” 

John Pilch wrote: “cultural insights urge more precise translations of this story to show why its popular title, “The Persistent Widow,” is inappropriate.  The word for “widow” in Hebrew means “silent one” or “one unable to speak.” In the patriarchal Mediterranean world males alone play a public role.  Women do not speak on their own behalf. 

A widow who has lost her husband and spokesperson to death is in an even worse condition if the eldest son is not married.  Because widows were not included in Hebrew laws on inheritance, they became common symbols of the exploited and oppressed. Prophets like Isaiah and Malachi criticized the harsh treatment they received, and throughout the Bible widows are viewed as being under the special protection of God. What finally moves the judge is not her persistence but rather that, literally translated, “she will end up giving me a black eye”.  The Greek word in that verse is borrowed from boxing. 

The Greek language also used the word figuratively to mean “blacken one’s face,” which means to publicly shame a person. The translation “wear me down” is incorrect and misses the entire point: “shame.”  By publicly badgering the judge every day, the woman repeatedly shames this shameless person. Who knows but, at some point, that she might not even poke him in the eye, literally? 

After all, in a culture where law-courts were not about justice but shaming others no matter what the cost, this judge would be damaged by the gossip report that a woman has shamed him.  He’d never live that down and couldn’t continue as judge.” 

John Pilch helps us to see the parable in the Gospel from a totally different perspective.  He continued: “The parable makes convincing sense in the Mediterranean world but may be less convincing in the modern world.”  Even though the parable may not have the same impact on us today, we are still conscious of shaming. 

How often do we perform an act or refrain from doing something, so we are not ashamed in front of others?  Peer pressure is tremendous and often makes us act based on what others might think of us.  This is especially true for young people in high school or middle school.  Tragically, some of our young people have committed suicide because of being shamed and bullied by others who are like the judge in today’s parable; they don’t care what anyone thinks of them if they are in charge. 

Shaming is as valid today as it was in ancient times.  Social media influences us more than we are willing to admit.  Realizing that our actions may be posted or ridiculed on Facebook makes us do what we would normally refrain from doing.  This applies to our personal lives as well as our work lives.  But it doesn’t have to be this way. 

In the second reading, Paul writes to Timothy: “I charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who will judge the living and the dead, ….. proclaim the word; be persistent whether it is convenient or inconvenient; convince, reprimand, encourage through all patience and teaching”. 

The parable tells us “For a long time, the judge was unwilling, but eventually he thought, ‘While it is true that I neither fear God nor respect any human being, because this widow keeps bothering me, I shall deliver a just decision for her lest she finally come and strike me.’”  Now we can begin to understand why praying without ceasing has results.  Jesus said “Pay attention to what the dishonest judge says.  Will not God then secure the rights of his chosen ones who call out to him day and night?  Will he be slow to answer them?  I tell you; he will see to it that justice is done for them speedily.” 

Our problem is that we want justice in this world, but our battle is not earthly, it is spiritual.  Our battle is against evil, and our reward is eternal life in heaven with God. 

In today’s Gospel, Jesus asks the question: “But when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?”  Think about that question for a moment. 

When Jesus comes, will he find anyone who believes in him?  When we look at the world today, we see ourselves and a few other faithful servants who believe in Jesus, and it ends there. 

Will we let peer, and social media pressure shame us into doing what we don’t want to do?  Let’s pray that we remain faithful in our faith until Jesus comes for us. 

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Thayer Wedding – Holy Cross

Today we celebrate a very special moment in the lives of David and Zelma.  Coming before God and the Church asking to be married as a sign of their faith in God and each other. 

In the first reading from Proverbs, we hear: “When one finds a worthy wife, her value is far beyond pearls.  Her husband, entrusting his heart to her, has an unfailing prize.”  I tell you that applies to both of them.  Finding each other and entrusting their hearts to each other is an unfailing love.  This theme continues. 

In the second reading, Paul is writing to the people in Corinth admonishing them to strive for the greatest spiritual gifts.  Then Paul talks about the greatest gift, love.  He said, “If I give away everything I own, and if I hand m body over so that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing. 

Paul then goes on to describe love: “Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth.  It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.  Love never fails.” 

In today’s Gospel, we hear that love for God and love for others is the greatest of all the commandments.  David and Zelma are showing their love for God as they come to the church to be married.  Their love for each other is evident by their family who are here to help them celebrate this special moment in their lives. 

As they walk the journey of life with each other and with the church, may they share their love for God with everyone they meet. 

We ask God to bless them and keep them in his care, safe in his loving arms and fill them with the Holy Spirit so others will see the love they have for God and each other. 

May your journey be filled with happiness and times of joy.  May you rely on God for strength in difficult times.  Always lead your family with God as the center of you lives.  Love God and each other with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and share God’s love those whom God sends into your lives. 

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Lackey Wedding – Holy Cross

Today we celebrate a very special moment in the lives of Rick and Anna.  Coming before God and the Church asking for their marriage to be blessed as a sign of their faith in God. 

In today’s Gospel, we hear that love for God and love for others is the greatest of all the commandments.  Rick and Anna are showing their love for God as they come to the church to have their marriage blessed by the church.  Their love for each other is evident by their family who are here to help them celebrate this special moment in their lives. 

As they walk the journey of life with each other and with the church, may they share their love for God with everyone they meet. 

We ask God to bless them and keep them in his care, safe in his loving arms and fill them with the Holy Spirit so others will see the love they have for God and each other. 

May your journey be filled with happiness and times of joy.  May you rely on God for strength in difficult times.  Always lead your family with God as the center of you lives love God and each other with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. 

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20251012SundayOrdinary28C

Today the disease we fear the most is probably cancer.  In ancient times, the dreaded disease was leprosy.  If someone developed a spot on their skin, they were required to go show it to the priest and if the priest determined it was leprosy, it was in essence a death sentence. 

The person was required to remove themselves from contact with all people, including their families and friends.  For most, it meant a life of begging for food at the gate to the city or village and shouting “Unclean, Unclean” to anyone who came close to them.  For a Jew, this meant they could no longer go to the temple so there was no way to offer sacrifice and receive redemption. 

In today’s Gospel, ten lepers stood at a distance and shouted “Jesus, Master! Have pity on us!”  As we will soon learn the ten lepers consist of Jews and at least one Samaritan.  In their life of misery, their hatred for one another became insignificant in the scheme of living an extremely difficult life so they banded together begging for food and clothing. 

Jesus has pity on them.  He tells them to go show themselves to the priest and as they were going, they were cleansed of their leprosy.  Even the Samaritan would have gone to show himself to the priest because they were taught that salvation is from the God of the Jews.  As they were going, one of them realized that they were healed and returned to Jesus giving thanks for their healing. 

We know that all ten were cleansed because Jesus said “Ten were cleansed, were they not?  Where are the other nine?”  But only one returned to give thanks, and that one was a foreigner, a Samaritan. 

That means that the other nine were probably Jews and had the most to gain from their healing.  They could now associate with others and go into the temple to worship and offer sacrifice for their sins.  We don’t know if they gave the required sacrifice of thanksgiving for their healing after they showed themselves to the priest, but only the Samaritan returned to Jesus praising and giving thanks to God for healing. 

We are truly blessed.  We live in a nation with more freedoms and a better living standard than any in the world.  Despite the turmoil and polarization in our political system, we are the richest in the world in terms of freedom and wealth.  The poor in the United States have so much more than the poor in the rest of the world, and middle-class Americans live in a standard that only the wealthiest have in many nations of the world. 

How often do we give thanks for these blessings?  Are we like the other nine lepers?  Do we complain about the issues and the hardships of life instead of giving thanks for the blessings we have received? 

Today’s Psalm reads: “All the ends of the earth have seen the salvation by our God.  Sing joyfully to the LORD, all you lands: break into song; sing praise.” 

Indeed, the rest of the world envies the freedom and wealth that we have received from our God.  That is why so many millions want to come to the United States even if they feel the only way into the country is illegal.  We must give thanks for the blessings we have received from God! 

Our culture teaches us that the only way to get ahead is to work, work, work.  The stress of trying to be the best at any cost wears us down until we are unhappy with life and complain about everything.  We become difficult to live with and for others to be around. 

Even with all the turmoil and polarization within our nation, we have so much to thank God for all the blessings we have received from him.  Let us always remember to give thanks for these blessings we have received from his bounty. 

The verse from the Alleluia today reminds us “In all circumstances, give thanks, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.”  God wants us to have these blessings and wants us to give him thanks for them. 

God gave us the gift of his Son, who gave his life on the cross that we might have forgiveness of our sins.  Christ rose from the tomb to defeat death and give us eternal life.  It is imperative that we give thanks to God for his many blessings, especially his Son, our Lord Jesus Christ who gives us eternal life. 

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20250907 Sunday Ordinary 23C

Today’s Gospel tells us that great crowds were following Jesus, and he addressed the crowds with the following words: “If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.  Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.” 

Wow!!

These seem harsh and so they are.  But let’s look at the culture of the day to understand the meaning for a person from that culture.  John Pilch tells us that Jesus has been invited for a meal at the home of a leading Pharisee.  The cultural world of Jesus required that people, especially the elite, “eat with their own kind, within their own class.” 

The fact that Jesus is often a guest of Pharisees has led some scholars to suggest that Jesus himself was a Pharisee.  Whatever the case, he never failed to challenge their beliefs and practices in the interest of offering better alternatives. 

This Middle-Eastern understanding of “meals” helps a “foreigner” to understand Jesus’ comments on discipleship in today’s reading, 

A follower of Jesus who ceased “networking” by means of meals would jeopardize a family’s very existence.  The disciple must then choose between allegiance to the family and allegiance to Jesus. 

Choosing Jesus is thus equivalent to letting one’s family go, “hating” the family.  Hate is more suitably translated “prefer,” that is, one who “hates” family actually prefers another group to the family. 

Recall the tight-knit nature of the Middle-Eastern family. The ideal marriage partner is a first cousin.  Sons, married and single, remain with the father.  Everyone “controls” one another. 

Life in these circumstances can be very stifling, very suffocating.  Following Jesus and joining a new, fictive family would be very liberating and exhilarating. 

There is, of course, a price to pay for such freedom.  In the Middle East, the main rule of behavior is: family first!  A disciple who deliberately cuts ties with family and social network will lose the ordinary means of making a living. This is the “economic cross” the disciple has chosen to carry. 

True, by joining a new, fictive family consisting of other disciples of Jesus, a “family-hating” person presumably has a new source of livelihood. 

No longer able to make claims to a livelihood based on blood ties and advantageous social network, members of this new fictive family have to rely on “hospitality,” which in the Middle East is extended exclusively by strangers to strangers.  This risk-filled option is quite a cross to carry. 

Clearly, a disciple who has accepted these challenging exhortations will effectively have given up everything.  Therefore, a would-be disciple must seriously calculate the costs. 

Two brief parables (about construction and waging war) drive this point home.  Anyone who weakens and abandons this determination will become the butt of ridicule and shame.  A disciple must remain firmly committed. 

The behavior Jesus proposes is liberating and heroic but costly.  Jesus’ attitude toward family values gives his followers much to think about. 

Now that we have a better understanding of the culture of that time from John Pilch, we can understand the true meaning of giving up everything. 

Let’s look at today’s culture and how that applies in our lives.  Our families here in The United States are not as tightly controlled as the families in Jesus’ time.  Some cultures still have that tight family bond and are controlled by the patriarch or the matriarch depending on the culture. 

Think about the networking of the individuals through meals today.  To be successful we are told that we must network and know the right people.  The way to do that is by playing golf, tennis, or some other activity that brings us in contact with others. 

Showing up at Social Hour at certain clubs, bars, or country clubs helps us make those connections.  Are we really any different from the people Jesus was addressing in today’s Gospel? 

What happens if we don’t play the game to make the contacts and be in the “Right” crowd?  As John Pilch told us, there are two parables about construction and war that drive the point home. 

Whether we are doctors, attorneys, in sales or management, we are expected to follow these rules or face the consequences; passed over for promotion, shut out, or looked on with disdain.  That is the price of being a follower of Christ. 

Jesus tells us that it is not easy.  We are breaking all the norms of society and there is a price to pay for that.  Peer pressure can make us weak and give in to the social norms.  That is why Jesus stressed that we must be willing to give up everything and take up our cross to follow him.  You see there is a price to pay to be a Christian. 

Father John Kavenaugh tells us that “Jesus’ recommendation of vigilance against possessiveness comes in one of the harshest passages found in the New Testament, a saying about family life.  “If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.”  We must, rather, take up our cross and follow him in discipleship. 

Clearly, he is speaking here of renouncing our loved ones as possessions or as barriers to the redeeming cross.  We can never possess another. 

It is easy for us to let our families, our children, our jobs creep into positions of possessions.  The late meetings at work to impress the manager, the parents who constantly need our help on weekends, so we miss Sunday mass. 

We teach our children that it’s ok to miss Sunday mass for a soccer game.  Suddenly, we are the ones that Jesus is talking to about our possessions. 

As we discern our lives, we too must be willing to give up everything to follow Jesus.  In today’s Gospel, Jesus is trying to inform us how difficult it is to follow him, how big a price we must be willing to pay to be called his disciple. 

“Am I willing to pay the price?  Am I willing to pick up my cross and follow him?” 

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20250713 Sunday Ordinary 15 C

In today’s Gospel, a scholar of the law tries to test Jesus when he questions him about how to inherit eternal life.  Jesus, who was so adept at handling those who wanted to trick him answered with a question.  “What is written in the law?  How do you read it?” 

The scholar replied: “You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your being, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.”  Because the scholar needed to justify himself in front of the others who were there, he asked “And who is my neighbor?” 

Once again, Jesus turns his answer back to the scholar with a parable and a question.  “Which of these three, in your opinion, was neighbor to the robbers’ victim?”  He answered, “The one who treated him with mercy.”  Jesus said to him, “Go and do likewise.” 

Go and do likewise! 

Everything about this parable is wrong!  Extremely wrong. 

John Pilch helps us to understand the culture that made each of the characters in the parable take the actions they did. 

In the Mediterranean world questions are rarely perceived as requests for information.  They are almost always viewed with suspicion as a challenge to personal honor.  The hope is that the person who is asked a question will not know the answer and be shamed by ignorance.  Lest the reader miss the point, Luke explicitly states that the lawyer’s intent was to “test” Jesus. 

In this seven-scene parable, the Samaritan stands at the center:

The robbers strip their victim and leave him half dead.  Now, no one can identify the victim’s ethnicity by his garments or his accent, two very common ways of identifying a stranger in antiquity.  Helping him carries a risk. 

The priest, riding a donkey in accord with his elite status, notices the victim and ponders.  If the victim is dead or is a non-Judean, the priest would be defiled by touching him and have to return to Jerusalem for purification.  Those who just saw him gloriously fulfilling his priestly role would now see him returning in shame for purification.  The risk is too great.  The priest rides on.

The Levite may have come even closer to examine the victim.  Even though the road is not straight, the Levite very likely saw the priest’s response to the victim from afar.  If the priest did not give first aid, why should the Levite?  That would be a challenge to the priest, an insult.  Moreover, if this victim is one of those who live in Shechem (a Samaritan).  The Levite too, passes on. 

The Samaritan is a shocking third character in this story.  Listeners would have expected “a Judean layperson.”  But this hated enemy is the first to feel compassion!  The Hebrew word, related to womb, describes an inner gut-feeling.

He offers the first aid (wine, oil, and bandages), which the Levite could have done but neglected to do. The Samaritan’s risk is that this victim might hate him upon re-gaining consciousness.  Samaritan wine and oil were considered impure and would have made the (very likely) Judean victim impure too!  In a certain sense, the Samaritan in this story line will be “damned if he does, and damned if he doesn’t.” 

The Samaritan then does what the priest might have done but didn’t: he places the victim on his animal, takes him to an inn, and continues to care for him. 

Finally, the Samaritan, in contrast to the robbers, promises to return and pay any additional expenses.  This is perhaps the most foolish part of this story.  If the victim should die, his family, who will not be able to find the robbers, may kill his benefactor instead.  Or if the victim survives, he may rage at this Samaritan for making him impure with Samaritan wine and oil.  It is impossible to underestimate the importance of purity, that is, the determination to “be holy as the Lord is holy” as defined in Leviticus. 

Without John Pilch’s help, we would miss the whole point of the Gospel.  The religious leaders ignored the victim, because it would make them unclean.  A Samaritan, whom the Jewish people view with contempt and have no association with is the one who helps. 

We often forget that Jesus was a radical in his day.  He defied many things about the religious leaders of his faith because of the hypocrisy of how it was lived.  It was based more on how important a person was or how important a person was seen in the eyes of others rather than what was in one’s heart.  This parable is a prime example of that.  How often do we act like the priest or Levite instead of the Samaritan? 

Jesus was constantly teaching that the intent of the heart is what really matters.  It’s whether we love as God loves us and are willing to share God’s love with others that really counts.  Even though Samaritans have nothing to do with Jews, the Samaritan is moved with pity seeing the person, lying along the road, beaten and suffering. 

Remember how the Gospel stated?  It starts with a scholar of the law asking Jesus how to inherit eternal life.  Jesus asks the scholar what is written in the law and how he reads the law.  The response is to love God with all your heart, with all your being, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.” 

Jesus told the scholar: “You have answered correctly; do this and you will live.”  Why is this so hard for us to live this law?  It becomes even more difficult when we comprehend everyone who is our neighbor.  Yes, everyone I s our neighbor, even the person in the family whom we can’t stand! 

Do I love God with all my heart?  Do I love God above everything else in the world?  Do I love my neighbor as myself?  Not only the person who lives next door in my neighborhood who looks and acts like me but the person in the urban ghetto, the homeless person, the political person I don’t like, the rude person at the store or at work, the person who cut me off on the highway coming to church today. 

Do I really love my neighbor as myself? 

Jesus is telling each of us: “Go and do likewise.” 

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20250608 Pentecost Sunday C

Jesus came and stood in their midst and said to them, “Peace be with you.”  The disciples rejoiced when they saw that it was the Lord.  When Jesus appears to his disciples after his resurrection, the first thing he says to them is “Peace be with you.”  Peace was obviously important to Jesus because it is how he greets his disciples after his resurrection. 

Peace. 

Peace is important to each of us.  But peace is also elusive.  It is elusive for nations, families and even within our very being.  It is something we all try to achieve but few ever actually find. 

There are many different definitions for peace.  We all know the primary definition of “Peace” as peace between two warring nations.  We seek peace between the nations of Ukraine and Russia.  We seek peace in the Middle East between Israel and Hamas. 

We also seek peace within our families and with our friends who are so often torn apart by harsh words, anger, and jealousy. 

It takes a fair amount of research to get down to the sixth definition in Dictionary.com to define “Peace” as freedom of the mind from annoyance, distraction, anxiety, an obsession.  Peace is tranquility; serenity; or quiet, calm.  I would add freedom of the Spirit, deep within our hearts as well as the mind to this definition because this is the peace that Jesus means. 

God made us in his image, so our soul searches for a relationship with God.  Our soul will not rest until it finds that peace.  The world desperately searches for that peace without finding it. 

Many people seek that peace in numerous ways: a better job, a bigger house, a new expensive car, prestige, power, and fame.  Some people seek that peace through addiction to sex, drugs, and acceptance by the “In” crowd.  All of these lack the peace that only God can give us.  So we keep searching, trying harder to get ahead and be happy.  We will not find the peace that Jesus gives in the world. 

In the fourteenth chapter of John, we read: “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.  Not as the world gives do I give to you.  Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” 

There is a famous passage from St. Augustine’s Confessions in which Saint Augustine states “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you.” 

We search for peace everywhere but in God.  And we wonder why we are unable to find peace.  It’s a never ending cycle, viciously searching for something we cannot seem to find. 

Jesus still comes to us today and says, “Peace be with you.”  Often it is in the busyness of our day.  Frequently it is in the quiet moments we spend with our Lord in prayer.  Then he invites us to see the wounds in his hands, feet, and side showing us that it is really him every time we see a Crucifix just as he showed his disciples when he appeared to them. 

Peace is important to our new Pope.  Pope Leo XIV greeted the city of Rome and the world with these words at his first appearance as the Successor of Peter from the Central Loggia of St Peter’s Basilica: “Peace be with you all!”  He continued: “Dear brothers and sisters, these are the first words spoken by the risen Christ, the Good Shepherd who laid down His life for God’s flock.  I would like this greeting of peace to resound in your hearts, in your families, among all people, wherever they may be, in every nation and throughout the world.  Peace be with you! 

It is the peace of the risen Christ.  A peace that is unarmed and disarming, humble and persevering.  A peace that comes from God, the God who loves us all, unconditionally.” 

Think about it.  The first words spoken by the risen Christ!  “Peace be with you!”  We must share this peace with everyone we meet! 

On the day of Pentecost, Jesus sent the Holy Spirit to his disciples to teach them all things and to help them remember what he had told them.  The Holy Spirit still comes to us today to lead us and help us make good decisions in our daily lives. 

If we ask the Holy Spirit to help us and open our hearts to his leading, we will share the Good News that Jesus preached to the ends of the earth.  The Holy Spirit will guide us and give us the words to say to a coworker about becoming a Christian. 

It is easy to give and support oversea missions.  It is definitely a lot harder to speak to a neighbor, a coworker, or a friend about God.  Through prayer, the Holy Spirit will give us the courage and the words to lead that person to Christ. 

Pentecost was the day that the Holy Spirit came down and appeared as tounges of fire above Our Blessed Mother and the disciples.  The disciples went from hiding behind locked doors fearful for their lives, to boldly proclaiming God’s love and sharing the peace that only comes from God. 

In today’s Gospel Jesus came and stood in the midst of his disciples and said to them, “Peace be with you.”  Will we hide by keeping quiet about our faith or will we let the Holy Spirit give us strength and courage to share our faith with others?  Are we too concerned about being liked by others that we remain silent rather than speak up for someone who is being put down?  Whether it is on the playground or in the classroom, or in front of our manager because we are seeking a promotion? 

The first words of the risen Christ were “Peace be with you!”  Will I share this peace with everyone I meet? 

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20250504 Easter Sunday 3 C

“I am going fishing!” 

If I said that I was going fishing, no one would be surprised.  But this was Peter who said it. 

The disciples were feeling down, and a little overwhelmed by all the events that happened recently.  Jesus, their leader, was crucified.  They had gone into hiding for fear that they would suffer the same type of death that Jesus suffered.  Jesus, risen from the dead had appeared to them twice behind locked doors. 

At this point, the disciples were trying to comprehend what all this meant.  They didn’t know what to do.  Peter, always rambunctious and always ready to act, says “I’m going fishing.”  The other disciples there, not having anything better to do, decide to join Peter.  They went down to the boat with Peter, got in and fished all night without catching anything.  Sound familiar?  It should, because this is not the first time we have heard this scenario. 

They were fishing about one hundred yards from the shore.  Jesus, standing on the shore asks them if they caught any fish.  They say no, and Jesus tells them to drop the nets on the right side of the boat, and they would find something. 

The disciples did not recognize the person standing on the shore as Jesus.  It seems that no one who saw Jesus after his resurrection recognizes him until he speaks or breaks bread with them.  Scholars are unsure why this is, but it happens numerous times after his resurrection.  Mary didn’t recognize Jesus in the garden until he spoke her name.  The two disciples on the road to Emaus didn’t recognize him until he blessed and broke bread when they were eating.  The disciples thought he was a ghost when he appeared to them behind locked doors until he ate some fish in their presence to show that he had a body. 

Peter Kreeft tells us that in this case, it is only after seeing the miracle of the 153 fish that the beloved disciple tells Peter, “It is the Lord.”  When Peter hears that it is the Lord, he jumps into the lake and swims to the shore.  This was very different from the time that Peter stepped out of the boat to walk on the water to Jesus in the storm. 

We know that Peter sometimes acts without thinking through all the potential consequences.  When Jesus said that they would desert him Peter said that he would never leave him and would even die for him.  When the mob came to arrest Jesus in the garden, Peter drew his sword and cut off a person’s ear. 

Jesus told Peter that he would deny him three times before the cock crowed.  I’m sure Peter thought to himself that would never happen.  When it happened, Jesus looked at Peter and Peter made eye contact with Jesus, he went out and wept bitterly.  Peter was ashamed and sorry for denying our Lord. 

It seems ironic that Jesus would select Peter to lead the Church after all of this.  Yet, Jesus knew that these characteristics would make Peter the ideal leader for the fledgling Church.  Jesus does this all the time.  Jesus calls some of the Saints to do great things for his Church.  Some of them felt unqualified but Jesus guided them to great accomplishments for him.  

He also calls us to serve in ways that we often feel we are incapable of doing.  If we are willing, Jesus will take our meager efforts to build the Church from our humble actions.  Jesus took the most unlikely person to lead his Church because he knew that Peter loved him and would persevere until he successfully cared for the Church. 

After breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?”  Peter answers “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”  Jesus tells Peter to “Feed my lambs.”  Again, Jesus asks Peter “Simon, son of John, do you love me?”  Peter responds, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”  This time, Jesus tells him, “Tend my sheep.” 

Jesus asks Peter a third time “Simon, son of John, do you love me?”  The Gospel reading shows Peter ‘s frustration that Jesus asked him a third time, “Do you love me?” and he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.”  Jesus tells him, “Feed my sheep.” 

Peter’s frustration at this point is brought about because of his shame for denying Jesus before.  It brings back all the hurt from Jesus’ look when they made eye contact in the courtyard.  Something that Peter desperately wants to forget. 

Jesus asks Peter three times: “Do you love me?”  One time for each time Peter denied him.  Each time that Peter expressed his love for Jesus, he is given a task.  Jesus is preparing Peter to lead the Church. 

The terms progress each time.  It starts with the command to feed my lambs.  Take care of the little ones, the children in the world.  The next time Jesus tells Peter to tend my sheep.  Jesus wants Peter to be a shepherd to the Church, his flock, and teach the Church how to love God by example.  The third time, Jesus tells Peter to feed my sheep.  Teach the Church the truth and teach them how to evangelize the world. 

Jesus is calling us today, just as he called Peter two thousand years ago.  “Do you love me?” 

Do I love him?  How will I respond?  Like Peter?  Remember that when we say yes, Jesus will tell us to care for others.  He will ask us to help the homeless, the sick, the widow, the orphan, the incarcerated, the stranger and the immigrant. 

It is important that we understand that to be a Christian we must live a life of love for others.  This is the life that Jesus lived to give us an example to follow. 

Jesus is asking each of us “Do you love me?”  Are we too preoccupied with family or work or school to make time to serve our Savior? Or will we answer like Peter?  “Yes, Lord, I love you, SEND ME.”

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